Life was easier when we were young. The only difference is we're older, and the older we get, the more we complicate things for ourselves. It's easy to feel like you don't need help, but it's harder to walk on your own.
When we were young we saw the world through simple, hopeful eyes. We knew what we wanted and we had no biases or concealed agendas. We liked people who smiled. We avoided people who frowned. We ate when we were hungry, drank when we were thirsty, and slept when we were tired..
As we grew older our minds started to get affected by negative external influences. At some point we began to hesitate and question our instincts. When a new obstacle or growing pain arose, we stumbled and a fell down. This happened several times. Eventually we decided we didn't want to fall again, but rather than solving the problem that caused us to fall, we avoided it all.
We drank alcohol we drugged to numb our wounds. We worked late nights on purpose to avoid unresolved conflicts at home. We started holding grudges, playing mind games, and subtly deceiving others and ourselves to get ahead. And when it didn't work out, we lived above our means, did everything that wasn't suppose to be. Over the course of time, we made our lives more and more difficult, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.
What's done is done. Emotional rage only makes matters worse, tragedies are rarely as bad as they seem. Don't waste your life fulfilling someone else's dreams or desires. Forget about impressing people. People buy things they don't need with money, they don't have to impress people they don't know, it's a waste of time.
Like everything stayed the same through out these days, yet looking back at where I was around this exact time last year, everything was just so different.
Everyone make mistakes. Crap happens. But there's no reason to stress out yourself and everyone around you because of it. If something won't be significant to you 3 days / 3 months / 3 years from now, don't waste all your time worrying about it now. Negative thinking creates negative results while positive thinking creates positive results, lose the negative attitude.
In order to get, you have to give.
This 招财猫 is what I wanted for christmas last year. But I can't find any cute or attractive one. Finally manage to found a cute one and ahzý got it for me! As well as the 2 pictures above. Wo love him! Never failed to gimme what I want.
Probably the most miserable night of my life on my friday and saturday night 'cos ahzý neglect me! Went to a few places before I met up with yahui at junction 10 on saturday night. Great catch up! ❤
Congratz to my sissy! Here's the very naughty chantel and trinny's younger brother. As I'm back to day-job like finally and I've been working almost everyday. So I still haven't get a chance to see baby boy yet.. Gotta visit sissy soon with ahzý.
With what I mean, how I say. It's hard to write what I can't feel. when all you want is mass appeal. what you want, it isn't real.
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect – you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together. But if she can make you laugh, and admit to being human & making mistakes, hold onto her & give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break, a heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad."
Take each day as it comes, live today for today, yesterday's problems are where they belong – in the past – you cannot change them, don't carry the burdens of yesterday.
Much is said about having soul-mates, sister, brother, best friend, loved ones or just plain people in your lives, they each adds their own flavour and spice into your world. You can take what you need from them, discard what could be damaging to your life, and smile about the parts you adore but can't adopt. Learn from other's experiences, watch with a close eye where they may or may not go wrong in situations they are faced with. When they give you advice about things, you have the option to use or discard of it and they have the same privilege.
As much as I would change all these things, I have learnt from them. Time is there to teach us, people help along, and you have to learn your lesson. Time is what we want most, but what we use worst. Look at the people around you, see how they fit in, what has happened with each one of them, what you have learnt and remind yourself that everything happens for a reason..
Easier said than done, sometimes when you are in a situation you know the potential outcome; you know the good and the bad. And sometimes you don’t. Don’t wait to get to the point of no return and then wish things were different.
It has been said that real friends are very hard to find. The ones that stay when times are tough. A real friend - the lasting kind. As I travel through this life, I know one thing is true.. 5 years down the road, I've got you! Happy 21st birthday, I love you like always.
Cheers to the shitz we talked, the guys we stalked, the way we shop, the laughters we can't stop, the gossips we spill, our looks that could kill, to having each other's back, to the next morning getting the facts, downing the beers, spilling the tears, we'll stay together through the years. And where the years took us, no place is too far. We will think of each other, wherever we are. Year goes by, memories made. Those people we met, the changes in our lives. No matter what happened, I'll always be there. One word, irreplaceable.
As usual, 24/7 with my dearest ahzý!